Your Life Is Full of Porn-Stop Getting Yourself Off.

You’re consuming porn daily and you don’t even know it. It’s just not worth being addicted anymore. It is evidently clear that porn ruins lives and you don't need to be a porn star on viagra to witness its effects.

I would love to define porn in this case as an addictive habit. Yes, porn is what I call addictive habits. Do you know why I do so? It is because porn habits starts off as a small thing and end up curtailing out of control if you let them.

Individuals start with soft core porn at a young age and within no time, they are consuming hardcore porn like no one’s business-funny bit is part of that hard core porn is full of whips and people handcuffed to the walls of torture rooms.

Now, porn is all around you and it may take a long time before you see its devastating effects. Thankfully, once you do, you can throw it out of your life and turn a new leaf. Anyway why would you do that?

Your life is on porn

You wake up. You go to the toilet and relieve yourself. Your day starts out well. You have many goals you want to achieve and your to-do list is ready and waiting for you. “Just one sec,” you say to yourself. Then, porn enters the bathroom while your undies are wrapped around your legs.

1.    Lifestyle Porn

No one can skip this category, what apps do you love most?  In the morning, you whimp your phone and open one if not two three or even 10 apps. What do you see when you do that? A lot of consumer-focused ads with a taste of how your life could get better.

They make you see an alternative life that you could be living if you weren't living this 9-5 nightmare you call a life.  At some point I know you trust it-don't you? "I am so stupid" you think to yourself.  How do I escape all this? That is the question that lingers in most of our heads.

What makes it difficult is because you never see what it takes to earn that lifestyle, you are blind enough to only see the end result which is the lifestyle itself.  It is frustrating but hold on, there is always a way out.  Accept that your lifestyle is never going to be the same with everybody else. That’s the point! Create your own lifestyle. Don't copy a porn version you’ll never have.

2.    Money Porn

"How to make money online using your phone during lockdown. just a few tips for someone today" I know you have seen this message many times especially during this lockdown.

Laptop. Laptop. Laptop. It makes you think making money is easy. Do you all agree that if making money was so gosh damn simple, we’d all be rolling in it and nobody would ever need to wake up early for work again.

What money porn sells is a very weird dream that cash will solve all your problems. Trust me it won't. Money is a porn lie. The notion that if you had money, then you'd have happiness is far-fetched. All you need is meaning. Without meaning and fulfillment, money won't move any mountains for you. Instead it can make your life even worse, not better.

Nobody has to lose for you to win and that’s the problem with money porn.

3.    Startup Porn

I started my startup 2 years ago and it has grown to great heights. I am contented and am pushing it harder and harder. When I was starting I shared with some of my close "community members"-I remember one who is very close told me how hard it would be and all the cons, he never mentioned one pro at all.

Many will tell you all you need is a business and you'll be successful.  Truth be told, last year alone 9/10 startups failed in the first year. If yours managed to stay afloat-you are making it. Keep pushing. This means startup porn is statistically designed to ruin your life.

Everything is hard work, ignore easing your way into business or any career. Whoever tells you to walk away from everything and start a business may be lying to you. That's stupid advice. Are you ready for all the hard work a personal business needs?

Do you know (If you’ve got a regular job, then you’re already an entrepreneur with one customer anyway.)

You can be happy without a startup, take it in and let it sink.

4.    Revenge porn

What makes this porn real is social media. Do you really have to sabotage other people in the comment’s section of their posts or in the hidden chamber of secrets known as direct messages.

I know to some seeking revenge feels good. Seeing people lose, so you can, win seems obvious. Trust me the need to only win leads to lots of disappointments.

Crush revenge porn by helping other people get better. Don't pull anyone down even if that is your hobby. When you eradicate the idea of winners and losers from your life, you welcome the gift of opportunity through the door of your mind.

You can do more when you collaborate than you can by yourself. Try it and see.

5.    Influencer Porn

Having a brand and a lot of followers makes many think they are incredibly well but that is not it. A personal brand is not everything.

"People who consume our content are a community and it is right to serve them and not our ambitions."

Nobody gives a damn about how many followers you have or your brand. Use social media, absolutely — but use it to be helpful and for a cause greater than your own selfish desires.

Influencer porn is designed to sell you products, not make you successful in life. You don’t need any of it.

6.    People “Doing It” Porn

Lastly, the bar you have for physical looks and crazy sexual acts will only increase. Drop porn for real-life sex with your partner. It’s much better.

Whatever your version of porn is, abolish it.